MOST OF US IF NOT ALL OF US AT SOME POINT AND TIME HAVE FALLEN TO WHAT WE THOUGHT WAS "THE LOVE BUG" ...BUT WHAT WE THOUGHT WAS LOVE WAS THE LUST BUG!...SOME OF US STILL FALLING.
A COUPLE OF OFTEN SEEN SITUATIONS. JUST BROKE UP WITH YOUR EX A COUPLE MONTHS AGO. TALKING TO A NEW FACE ON THE PHONE, YOU GO OUT HERE AND THERE. HE/SHE JUST SEEMS TO BE MORE PERFECT FOR YOU WITH EVERYDAY THAT PASSES. A MONTH OR TWO GOES BY AND NOW YOU'RE IN LOVE! OR ARE YOU?
YOU SEE THESE PAST COUPLE MONTHS WITH THE NEW FACE ARE OBVIOUSLY GOING TO BE SOMEWHAT PERFECT, WHEN YOU ACTUALLY TAKE A MINUTE TO THINK..YOU'VE SPENT HOURS ON THE PHONE TALKING ABOUT WHAT WENT WRONG WITH THE EX, WHAT HE/SHE DIDNT DO, WHAT THEY DID THAT PISSED YOU OFF, WHAT THEY SAID ETC....AS YOU'RE EXPRESSING THAT, THE NEW FACE IS TAKING MENTAL NOTES AND AS YOU SPEAK, COUNTERACTING WITH EVERYTHING THAT WOULD SEEM TO BE THE TOTAL OPPOSITE OF THE EX YOU ARE DESCRIBING..SO OFCOURSE THE NEW FACE SEEMS TO BE THE BEST THING SMOKING! YOU'VE JUST HANDED OVER ALL THE ANSWERS TO THE TEST. HOW CAN HE/SHE FAIL?
SO NOW YOU'VE GOT THIS GREAT NEW GUY/GIRL AND YOU'RE IN LOVE RIGHT? RIIIIGHT...THINGS START TO SETTLE IN, CERTAIN THINGS BECOME A LITTLE ROUTINE, AND THEN YOU CATCH A GLIMPSE OF SOMETHING IN THIS NEW FACE YOU'VE NEVER SEEN BEFORE. SOMETHING THAT ISNT EXTREME AS OF YET, BUT SOMETHING YOU KNOW YOU DONT TOO MUCH CARE FOR..BUT ALL IS WELL, YOU IGNORE IT BECAUSE THIS NEW FACE HAS BEEN SO WONDERFUL SO FAR. ANOTHER MONTH PASSES, NOW WE'RE COMFORTABLE. HE/SHE IS PRETTY CONFIDENT THAT YOU'RE NOT GOING ANYWHERE..NOW THEY CAN KICK THEIR FEET UP, LET THEIR HAIR DOWN AND JUST BE THEMSELF. MR/MRS. WONDERFUL ISNT LOOKING SO GOOD NOW. HE/SHE IS'NT SAYING THE THINGS THEY USED TO SAY, NOT DOING THE LITTLE THINGS HE USED TO DO. WHATS GOING ON?
IT'S SIMPLE..YOU FELL FOR SOMEONE YOU NEVER KNEW. YOU TRIED TO WRITE DOWN WHO YOU ARE ON A MENTAL NOTEPAD AND HAND IT TO HIM/HER AND EXPECTED THEM TO KNOW YOU AND LOVE YOU. HE/SHE DID THE SAME. BUT YOU SEE ON THAT NOTEPAD HE/SHE ONLY SEEMED TO WRITE DOWN THE GOODS AND BADS OF THE PAST. YOU ONLY SEEMED TO WRITE DOWN THE GOOD AND THE BAD OF THE PAST. BUT NO ONE HAS WRITTEN ON THIS MENTAL PAD THE GOOD AND THE BAD OF THE PRESENT. SO AS HE/SHE STARTS TRIPPING AND YOU GO BACK INTO YOUR MENTAL NOTES FROM THE PAST COUPLE MONTHS, YOU CANT SEEM TO FIND ANYTHING AS TO WHY HE/SHE IS ACTING THE WAY THEY ARE....BUT THIS IS WHO YOU LOVE RIGHT? RIIIIIGHT...
LOVE IS NOT BLIND. LUST BLINDS YOU. WHEN YOU LOVE, YOU ARE AWARE OF THE GOOD THE BAD AND THE UGLY, AND PUSHING TO IMPROVE THESE THINGS WITHIN YOURSELF AND WITHING THE NEW FACE. THE LUST FOR THAT PERSON AND/OR WHAT YOU FEEL THEY ARE CAPABLE OF DOING FOR YOU BLINDS YOU FROM THE THINGS THAT HE/SHE REALLY NEEDS TO WORK ON TO BE SOMEONE YOU COULD POSSIBLY LOVE SOMEDAY. HE/SHE FILLED THAT VOID OF LONELINESS, GAVE YOU SOMEONE TO TALK, A REASON TO CRACK A FEW SMILES. BUT HOW MUCH OF YOU IS THAT PERSON IN TUNED WITH WITHOUT YOU HANDING THEM THE ANSWERS ON THAT MENTAL PAD? HOW RIGHT WOULD THEIR ACTIONS BE, HOW RIGHT WOULD THEIR WORDS SOUND IF YOU HADNT GIVEN THEM EVERYTHING TO SAY AND NOT TO SAY? THINK ABOUT IT!!
"I LOVE YOU" SOUNDS GOOD, BUT IT FEELS BETTER! PROBLEM IS ALOT OF US DONT REALLY EXPERIENCE THAT FEELING. WE FALL FOR THE ONE WHO SEEMS TO BE GIVING US ALL THE RIGHT ATTENTION. BUT THE "ONE" WHO IS REALY PAYING ATTENTION HAS LEARNED THE DO'S AND DONTS WITHOUT YOU SAYING TOO MUCH OF ANYTHING. THEY AREN'T TRYING TO AWWW YOU, SEX YOU, OR CONTROL YOU..THEY ARE TRYING TO GROW, BECOME ONE WITH YOUR SPIRIT. TOO MUCH FOR ALOT OF US TO FATHOM....BUT THE "ONE" FOR YOU ISNT CONCENTRATING ON HOW TO BECOME YOUR GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND.
THE "ONE" IS FOCUSED ON IMPROVING HIM/HERSELF TO BE THE BEST HUSBAND/WIFE THEY CAN BE..HE/SHE FORSEES THE PERSON YOU WILL BECOME IF YOU GROW TO YOUR POTENTIAL AS WELL AS THE PERSON YOU WILL BECOME IF YOU FAIL TO GROW....THE "ONE" DOESNT WANT TO SEX YOU TONIGHT. THEY WANT TO MAKE LOVE TO YOU ON THE HONEYMOON WITH NO REGRETS IF THE BLESSING OF A CHILD IS THE OUTCOME. THE "ONE" IS THE "ONE" WHO LOVES YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE YOU. SO WHO ARE ALL THESE OTHER INDIVIDUALS YOU SAY YOU LOVE/LOVED?
LOVE IS GODLY! SO HOW IS IT THAT WE CAN SAY WE LOVE SO MANY PEOPLE ONLY TO SEE SO MANY PEOPLE FADE AWAY?
GOD SAID TO US THAT HE LOVES US. WE DO HIM WRONG EVERYDAY, BUT DOES HE EVER LEAVE? DOES HE STOP LOVING? DOES HE FIND SOMEONE NEW TO TALK BAD ABOUT US TOO? IS HE A SUCKER FOR LUST? NO! HE'S TO BUSY LOVING ALL US SUCKERS FOR LUST!
WHEN YOU CAN LOVE SOMEONE AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH, NOWWWW YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT LOVE! UNTIL THEN, STOP TALKING ABOUT. JUST DO IT!
QUESTION OF THE DAY?
WHY ARE SO MANY OF US SO QUICK TO SETTLE FOR LESS THAN WHAT GOD HAS FOR US?
WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR SO MANY OF US TO RIGHTLY DIVIDE LOVE/LUST?
A COUPLE OF OFTEN SEEN SITUATIONS. JUST BROKE UP WITH YOUR EX A COUPLE MONTHS AGO. TALKING TO A NEW FACE ON THE PHONE, YOU GO OUT HERE AND THERE. HE/SHE JUST SEEMS TO BE MORE PERFECT FOR YOU WITH EVERYDAY THAT PASSES. A MONTH OR TWO GOES BY AND NOW YOU'RE IN LOVE! OR ARE YOU?
YOU SEE THESE PAST COUPLE MONTHS WITH THE NEW FACE ARE OBVIOUSLY GOING TO BE SOMEWHAT PERFECT, WHEN YOU ACTUALLY TAKE A MINUTE TO THINK..YOU'VE SPENT HOURS ON THE PHONE TALKING ABOUT WHAT WENT WRONG WITH THE EX, WHAT HE/SHE DIDNT DO, WHAT THEY DID THAT PISSED YOU OFF, WHAT THEY SAID ETC....AS YOU'RE EXPRESSING THAT, THE NEW FACE IS TAKING MENTAL NOTES AND AS YOU SPEAK, COUNTERACTING WITH EVERYTHING THAT WOULD SEEM TO BE THE TOTAL OPPOSITE OF THE EX YOU ARE DESCRIBING..SO OFCOURSE THE NEW FACE SEEMS TO BE THE BEST THING SMOKING! YOU'VE JUST HANDED OVER ALL THE ANSWERS TO THE TEST. HOW CAN HE/SHE FAIL?
SO NOW YOU'VE GOT THIS GREAT NEW GUY/GIRL AND YOU'RE IN LOVE RIGHT? RIIIIGHT...THINGS START TO SETTLE IN, CERTAIN THINGS BECOME A LITTLE ROUTINE, AND THEN YOU CATCH A GLIMPSE OF SOMETHING IN THIS NEW FACE YOU'VE NEVER SEEN BEFORE. SOMETHING THAT ISNT EXTREME AS OF YET, BUT SOMETHING YOU KNOW YOU DONT TOO MUCH CARE FOR..BUT ALL IS WELL, YOU IGNORE IT BECAUSE THIS NEW FACE HAS BEEN SO WONDERFUL SO FAR. ANOTHER MONTH PASSES, NOW WE'RE COMFORTABLE. HE/SHE IS PRETTY CONFIDENT THAT YOU'RE NOT GOING ANYWHERE..NOW THEY CAN KICK THEIR FEET UP, LET THEIR HAIR DOWN AND JUST BE THEMSELF. MR/MRS. WONDERFUL ISNT LOOKING SO GOOD NOW. HE/SHE IS'NT SAYING THE THINGS THEY USED TO SAY, NOT DOING THE LITTLE THINGS HE USED TO DO. WHATS GOING ON?
IT'S SIMPLE..YOU FELL FOR SOMEONE YOU NEVER KNEW. YOU TRIED TO WRITE DOWN WHO YOU ARE ON A MENTAL NOTEPAD AND HAND IT TO HIM/HER AND EXPECTED THEM TO KNOW YOU AND LOVE YOU. HE/SHE DID THE SAME. BUT YOU SEE ON THAT NOTEPAD HE/SHE ONLY SEEMED TO WRITE DOWN THE GOODS AND BADS OF THE PAST. YOU ONLY SEEMED TO WRITE DOWN THE GOOD AND THE BAD OF THE PAST. BUT NO ONE HAS WRITTEN ON THIS MENTAL PAD THE GOOD AND THE BAD OF THE PRESENT. SO AS HE/SHE STARTS TRIPPING AND YOU GO BACK INTO YOUR MENTAL NOTES FROM THE PAST COUPLE MONTHS, YOU CANT SEEM TO FIND ANYTHING AS TO WHY HE/SHE IS ACTING THE WAY THEY ARE....BUT THIS IS WHO YOU LOVE RIGHT? RIIIIIGHT...
LOVE IS NOT BLIND. LUST BLINDS YOU. WHEN YOU LOVE, YOU ARE AWARE OF THE GOOD THE BAD AND THE UGLY, AND PUSHING TO IMPROVE THESE THINGS WITHIN YOURSELF AND WITHING THE NEW FACE. THE LUST FOR THAT PERSON AND/OR WHAT YOU FEEL THEY ARE CAPABLE OF DOING FOR YOU BLINDS YOU FROM THE THINGS THAT HE/SHE REALLY NEEDS TO WORK ON TO BE SOMEONE YOU COULD POSSIBLY LOVE SOMEDAY. HE/SHE FILLED THAT VOID OF LONELINESS, GAVE YOU SOMEONE TO TALK, A REASON TO CRACK A FEW SMILES. BUT HOW MUCH OF YOU IS THAT PERSON IN TUNED WITH WITHOUT YOU HANDING THEM THE ANSWERS ON THAT MENTAL PAD? HOW RIGHT WOULD THEIR ACTIONS BE, HOW RIGHT WOULD THEIR WORDS SOUND IF YOU HADNT GIVEN THEM EVERYTHING TO SAY AND NOT TO SAY? THINK ABOUT IT!!
"I LOVE YOU" SOUNDS GOOD, BUT IT FEELS BETTER! PROBLEM IS ALOT OF US DONT REALLY EXPERIENCE THAT FEELING. WE FALL FOR THE ONE WHO SEEMS TO BE GIVING US ALL THE RIGHT ATTENTION. BUT THE "ONE" WHO IS REALY PAYING ATTENTION HAS LEARNED THE DO'S AND DONTS WITHOUT YOU SAYING TOO MUCH OF ANYTHING. THEY AREN'T TRYING TO AWWW YOU, SEX YOU, OR CONTROL YOU..THEY ARE TRYING TO GROW, BECOME ONE WITH YOUR SPIRIT. TOO MUCH FOR ALOT OF US TO FATHOM....BUT THE "ONE" FOR YOU ISNT CONCENTRATING ON HOW TO BECOME YOUR GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND.
THE "ONE" IS FOCUSED ON IMPROVING HIM/HERSELF TO BE THE BEST HUSBAND/WIFE THEY CAN BE..HE/SHE FORSEES THE PERSON YOU WILL BECOME IF YOU GROW TO YOUR POTENTIAL AS WELL AS THE PERSON YOU WILL BECOME IF YOU FAIL TO GROW....THE "ONE" DOESNT WANT TO SEX YOU TONIGHT. THEY WANT TO MAKE LOVE TO YOU ON THE HONEYMOON WITH NO REGRETS IF THE BLESSING OF A CHILD IS THE OUTCOME. THE "ONE" IS THE "ONE" WHO LOVES YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE YOU. SO WHO ARE ALL THESE OTHER INDIVIDUALS YOU SAY YOU LOVE/LOVED?
LOVE IS GODLY! SO HOW IS IT THAT WE CAN SAY WE LOVE SO MANY PEOPLE ONLY TO SEE SO MANY PEOPLE FADE AWAY?
GOD SAID TO US THAT HE LOVES US. WE DO HIM WRONG EVERYDAY, BUT DOES HE EVER LEAVE? DOES HE STOP LOVING? DOES HE FIND SOMEONE NEW TO TALK BAD ABOUT US TOO? IS HE A SUCKER FOR LUST? NO! HE'S TO BUSY LOVING ALL US SUCKERS FOR LUST!
WHEN YOU CAN LOVE SOMEONE AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH, NOWWWW YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT LOVE! UNTIL THEN, STOP TALKING ABOUT. JUST DO IT!
QUESTION OF THE DAY?
WHY ARE SO MANY OF US SO QUICK TO SETTLE FOR LESS THAN WHAT GOD HAS FOR US?
WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR SO MANY OF US TO RIGHTLY DIVIDE LOVE/LUST?
Because we are an impatient society.
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